There is no antagonism in the universe! If you are against yourself, you see one thing is against another one. Because of the very natural result of our genesis, human kind is inclined to realize and to be realized. At least you may think that. It is, however, the biggest mistake you can ever make. People guess that they are aware what they have done and are doing. The real becoming aware of things, let us say awareness, only comes when you open your eyes. Normally and expectedly, you cannot. Opening eyes requires having eyes. If you do not have any eye, how can you expect to open them? You need to ask this question: "How can I have my own eyes?"
Train your soul. Know that, your mental presence exists only if you can close to open your eyes. If you can stop to think yourself as if you are the one in the universe, you can be able to see others.
Start to discover. Discover the world surrounding your body. Look at others eyes willingly. Try to see their thoughts. Watch their moves. Talk to them. Ask questions and answer questions.
Do not be afraid of the highest heights and the wildest fights. Nevertheless, never fight! Just be brave. If you want to be the one, you can. Once you close your eyes, you will have new ones to open to see.